Monday, November 13, 2006

Elton John Concert

Yes, that's right... I went to see Elton John in concert. No, it wasn't my ideal way to spend a Saturday night, but it made Marie happy. And we all know that a happy wife is a good wife!

That, and it was her 30th birthday!

This picture shows just how excited she was to be there.



That one was at the very beginning, just as Sir Elton was coming out on stage. Here's another pic of Marie at the end. She was so excited that I couldn't get a picture without her bouncing all over the place.



I think she's singing in that picture.

Anyway, we had a fine time (that is, she had a GREAT time and I managed to get through it without swearing, so it averages out to "fine").

Happy Birthday, p'tit chou!

Thursday, November 09, 2006

Poppies poppies everywhere poppies!

Yes, this little red flower has been driving me nuts! You see, fellow Americans, the Canadians, with their oh-so-British background, have a tradition of wearing red poppies on their clothing to show their support for veterans and to honor the soldiers who have died. You see, November 11th is "Remembrance Day" here in the Great White North, which is equivalent to our Memorial Day (In fact, I think it's the same weekend).

But this little plastic-y wanna-be flower has taken these people over. Turn on the TV and everyone is wearing one. Walk down the street and you'll see a dozen in a single block. Walking through the airport will have you seeing red, too. It seems like anybody who is anybody is wearing one.

So what's my problem, then? Well, I don't have a problem with wearing a red poppy in honor of dead soldiers. What I have a problem with are the ramifications of NOT wearing a red poppy! Take, for example, the recent story that made big headlines in the UK and some mention here (and probably none in the US). The Duchess removed her poppy because it was interfering with a scarf she was wearing as to not offend her Islamic host. People are really angry about this! It's as if NOT wearing a poppy is a sign that you DON'T remember the dead soldiers and/or support Canada's veterans. How on this green earth did simple omission of support become synonymous with anti-support?! It's absurd!

Now, let me say for the record, that I don't mean what I'm saying to disparage any veterans or anything. If you want to support them, please go right ahead. BUT, don't look at people who haven't paid their $0.25 donation to the Veteran's Association as some sort of scum of the earth.

Bringing this conversation closer to home, the Canadian news has been reporting about a group in Alberta who have been passing out white "peace" poppies to support - you guessed it - peace! And this has, strangely, gotten the Veterans all upset! They say that what these people are doing is infringing on their trademark and it's illegal, etc, etc. Give me a break! What's worse than not supporting your Veterans?! Not supporting PEACE! In fact, the Veterans should be praising these people because if there was more peace there'd be fewer dead Veterans!

You Vets did a very noble thing in fighting for your country and you deserve to be respected for it. But don't belittle the people working for peace.

Monday, October 30, 2006

House Update

You may already know that we're buying a new house. Unfortunately, we need to sell our condo before we can buy the house we want. The good news is that we showed our condo on Saturday morning and things went really well! The lady loved it and said she was going to talk to the bank today (Monday) to see if she can afford it. Hopefully we'll hear from her this week.

But, even if we don't, we have an open house on Sunday, so hopefully that will bear some fruit, too. In any event, things are looking a lot better than they were a few weeks ago. And we've done it all (so far) without the "help" of a realtor.

Speaking of which, the realtor of the people from whom we're buying called on Sunday to give us a hard time and get an "update" on how things were going. Foretunately I had the good news I mentioned above and was able to fend her off for a while. I don't like her. I'm sure I'll write up a nice article about her once the deal is done, but for now I'll bite my tongue.

So if all goes as well as I hope, we'll be moving in the last half of January. Not the best time to be moving in Canada, but at least the movers will be cheap!

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Maggie's Birthday!

Today is Maggie's birthday! For those of you who don't know, Maggie is our little, white, neurotic, and horribly cute miniature poodle. She turns five today!

Actually, she probably turned five sometime in the last year, but we got her in October of last year and October 10th is midway between my birthday and Marie's, so we decided that today is the day from now on.

Here are some pictures from the last year of our little doghter!


This was her when we found her at the SPCA.


Here she is looking cute with her petite os.


Finally, here she is looking cute.

Ok, so I like my dog. Since we're not having kids, this is as close as we're getting to posting baby photos, so deal with it!

Bonne Fete, p'tit chien!

Tuesday, September 26, 2006

Quite a Stink

A journalist has posted an article in The Globe and Mail that has really caused quite a commotion in French Canada (The article requires registration, so I suggest that you follow the link and then go to http://www.bugmenot.com to get a login in order to read the entire article without registering). Since some of you may not want to go through all of the trouble of getting a login to read the entire article, I'll sum it up.

Basically, the article is a very detailed account of the events of the Dawson College shootings from multiple points of view. This is not such a big deal. However, amidst these stories is an attack on French Quebeccers that - implicitly - blames them for what happened at Dawson College. I say "implicitly" because she never comes right out and says it. She basically asks "Why do we keep having shootings in Montreal and not in Toronto, Vancouver, etc.?", then points out that immigrants in Quebec are marginalized by the French-speaking citizens, then points out that all three shooters of the events of the last 25 years have not been "pure laine", or a pure French-Quebeccer. The assumption, then, is that people who are marginalized are more likely to act out in aggressive ways, and since it is the French-speaking population that is doing the marginalizing, they are responsible for these tragic events.

It's been interesting to see how this has played out. Being a non-French speaking immigrant married to a pure laine Quebeccer, I get to see both sides pretty clearly. Marie-Pierre, of course, feels adamantly (as do all of the other French Quebeccers) that the author of this article is a nutjob. In the English news, however, this story has gone completely unnoticed. I figure that English Quebeccers are either 1) in complete agreement with the article or 2) feel that pure laine Quebeccers are marginalizing English speaking citizens and immigrants and are quietly letting this writer take out her emotions on the French-speaking community whether or not they agree with her. I prefer to think it's the latter.

What I find interesting about all of this is how angry French Quebeccers have gotten over it. It even warranted a good deal of discussion on the strangely popular "Tout le monde en parle" television program. But why are they so upset?

In my opinion, they're upset because they're afraid it's true! Now, let me qualify this by saying that I feel the author is talking about two issues here: 1) pure laine French Quebeccers alienate the English and immigrant communities and 2) the shootings at Dawson, Concordia, and the Politechnique were the result of this alienation. I want to make it very clear that I completely disagree with point #2. To be more precise, I DON'T BLAME THE FRENCH QUEBECCERS FOR THE SHOOTINGS AT DAWSON, CONCORDIA, OR THE POLITECNIQUE. OK? Now that I got that out of the way, let's continue.

As a non-French speaking immigrant to Quebec, I can personally testify that French-Quebeccers do marginalize their English and immigrant neighbors. I sincerely believe that most of them don't do it on purpose; I think they are the products of the Quebec system. You see, the difference comes down to "integration" vs. "assimilation". French-Quebeccers are some of the most accepting people ever when you talk about assimilation. That is, "if you come to Quebec and you're willing to leave your culture behind and do as we do, then you are extremely welcome". However, when you talk about integration, the story changes completely. French Quebeccers aren't interested in having cultures other than their own co-exist inside their communities. I think this comes from the (real) fear of losing their own culture, and so any other culture suddenly becomes a threat. While there is no doctrine that states "A good Quebeccer should marginalize immigrants", it is clear that a good Quebeccer should speak French and protect their culture at all costs; even at the expense of non pure laine Quebeccers. Just to give one more example of how French Quebeccers are more interested in assimilation than integration, take the school system. I don't know the law completely, but it's something like this: Your child must attend a French school unless at least one parent or sibling has attended an English school in Quebec. So this basically means that all immigrants MUST be cultured in French and bilingual families who were raised French MUST send their child to French school.

If you are willing to give up your culture and take on the persona of a pure laine Quebeccer (assimilation), you will be right at home as an immigrant in Quebec. However, if you want to keep your culture and your language while living in Quebec (integration) then you will very likely be marginalized.

But if you do something idiotic, don't try to blame it on the well-intentioned French speakers who inadvertently marginalized you while trying to protect their language and culture.

Monday, September 18, 2006

New look!

In case anyone is paying attention, I've drastically changed the look of the blog. Don't panic. i've just upgraded to the new Blogger Beta and am playing with some of the new features.

Official University Student

I've been terribly busy lately with our new Disk Library product. When I was at my old job in Chicago, we were one of about 30 customers to get the initial release of this product. When I moved to Montreal and got a job with the vendor of this product, I apparently became the resident expert for all of Canada (quite by default). Now, I want to give myself some credit because I do know the product pretty well, but I never expected to be THE expert.

Anyway, that's the end of my excuse for not posting. I've been traveling a lot (mostly to Toronto *ick*) and haven't had time to write an update. But now I do!

Tomorrow will be the third night of my Shiite Islam class at Concordia. It's a bit overwhelming to think that this is just the beginning of my qualifying work and that I still have an entire Master's program after this is finished! But, the course is going well so far. The first night was a waste of time since the professor was unable to make it due to a family emergency. The TA that she sent in her place was completely unprepared. Now, I can't blame her for that since she was doing the best she could last-minute, but still, it was a real waste.

Last week, the class was a lot better. We talked about the history of Islam and of Shiism, in particular. It's pretty facinating, really. The course should be really easy so long as I manage my time well. We already know what the final exam question is and what's expected for the final paper, so as long as I don't procrastinate I should do really well. I'm a little worried about the first exam, which is in a few weeks. It's been a long time since I've taken a real test (not one of those CBT's that we take for our certifications) and I'm a little worried I've forgotten how. I'm also worried that I believe my handwriting has actually gotten worse in the last few years, and it was already pretty bad to begin with! Too bad I can't type my test!

I'll write another update later this week. That is, if I don't put it off too long!

Thursday, September 14, 2006

Drama in Montreal

As you may have heard, we had a very exciting day here in Montreal. To sum it up, yesterday around lunch time a kid walked into a CEGEP and started shooting people a la Columbine. I'm not going to go into too much detail about the events since that's all over the news right now. What I want to talk about is the reporting.

I appreciate the fact that CBC et al want to keep us up-to-the minute for these events. Personally, I was in Toronto driving to the airport when I heard about it. I text messaged Marie-Pierre (who was in Montreal) and she didn't even know something was going on. This theme was echoed by the reporters in Toronto and those at the scene in Montreal. The folks in Toronto on CBC Radio actually knew more about what was going on than the people standing at the yellow police line. What's wrong here? I suppose it's due to the confusion at the site.

Speaking of which, Concordia University (where I am now a student) opened up its doors to the CEGEP to help curb and resolve all of the confusion. Good for them! And CBC rightly interviewed a few people from Concordia about the days events.

Here's where it gets a little weird. One may ask "Hey, what's a CEGEP?" and if you live outside Canada I fully expect you not to know. In fact, if you live outside Quebec, I expect you to be a little fuzzy on the idea, but you should at least know, especially if you ever expect to hire someone raised in Quebec! Anyway, a CEGEP is like a Jr. College to which all University-bound students in Quebec go. It's like post-High School or, more appropriately, pre-University. It's such an ingrained part of Quebec culture that I've actually had to switch from saying "College" to "University" to describe my Bachelor's degree. In the United States we use the terms interchangeably, but they are very different things in Quebec. College=CEGEP and University=well, University!

So this reporter from Toronto (i.e. "The only place in Canada that really matters") on CBC asked a Concordia student how their opinions of the Dawson College students have changed in light of the shootings. She asked something along the lines of "How do you now feel about these students who maybe you've played sports against or had rivalries with?". First off, what is he going to say? "I think they're stupid"? No! What a loaded question. Secondly (and more obviously for people in Quebec), asking a question like that is like asking a High School soccer team about their arch-rival the local Kindergarten class! CEGEPs and Universities don't compete! They supplement!

One last thing, our dear Prime Minister called this a "cowardly" act. I have a little bit of a problem with this. I don't think this kid was a coward at all. I think he was very brave. Now, having said that, I feel I must qualify my statements by asking you, the reader, to not automatically equate bravery with something good. Just because someone does something brave doesn't automatically make what he did worthy. I think it takes a lot of balls to walk into a public place and disrespect the social contract. So I think this kid was very courageous..... a friggin' idiot, but courageous. He clearly needed some attention that he wasn't getting. Maybe people call him "cowardly" because he wasn't able to face up to the REAL problems he was having. If that's the case then, of course, I have to agree. Also, please don't think that I'm saying this kid is a hero or glorifying what he did. Far from it. I feel that he had issues that were unresolved and they acted themselves out in a very violent and inappropriate way.

Anyway, this is a long rant about a very unfortunate situation. I'll close by saying that I feel very bad about what happened there and I'm glad for all of the students who managed to get out safely and unharmed.